Saturday, August 23, 2008

Nancy has made a good transition to Keystone House. I spent the morning arranging pickups of home infusion materials and the hospital bed before heading over.



There I found Nan Powlison and Karen Clark with with her, and I thought of the way these women had met to pray together during a very important time in Nancy's life. Their visit was another of God's parting gifts I think. We exchanged pet nicknames, read the next meditation from Monod's book and then wept together when the music therapist dropped by to play and sing hymns in her room.



The big gift came around 7pm when Leah and Chris arrived from Fulton. Nancy responded to them with joy and love. I left them to have time together, but I as I bent over to kiss her forehead she puckered her lips. Well, I wasn't going to turn down the special chance she gave me. Later, Leah came back and shared some of the special moments she had that night. Clearly God had answered lots of prayer that Leah have that kind of interaction with her mom. We didn't know what she could experience last night. You see, Nancy is fading fast. Her voice is a soft, soft whisper and I barely can make out words with my ear against her lips as she speaks. The moments of clarity are rare. We think we are days, not weeks from her homecoming. Each family member has surrendered her to the Lord and we long to see her cross the River and rest undre the trees on the other side." But we don't get to make that call. HIS mercies extend to selecting the hour of our passing

14 comments:

Brad & Stacey said...

Thankful for a smooth transition, great friends and sweet times in the midst of sorrow. We are praying for your family daily...

Anonymous said...

Praying for your family, thankful for the precious times that have been shared.

Anonymous said...

Praying for your family...Christ's love in abundance to you
Paige (Rainey)Thompson

Anonymous said...

dan and family, Thank you for sharin God's grace in your lives.. You are in our hearts and prayers. Alice and Greg Buchanan

Stephen said...

Dan and Nancy,
Sandy and I keep you in our prayers. God give you strength for these difficult days.
Love, Steve and Sandy

Anonymous said...

Dan: thanks so much for allowing all of us to weep and pray and walk through this with you as we read your words...so many incredible memories of you and Nancy and your beautiful family...thanks for loving me and so many so well for all these years...may this be a time where many minister back to you with prayers and hugs and shared tears as Nancy journeys to be with Jesus...praying with you and for you lots...hugs and blessings and love, Chrissy (Kind Baiocchi)

R&JCarns said...

Sweet peace to all of you as you place Nancy's hand in the hand of Jesus. We are in constant prayer for you.
Randy and Jennie

Anonymous said...

Praying for you all, aching with you, thankful for God's mercies and your ability to see and share them with us, trusting that His grace will carry you through.
Tom and Jane Wills

Anonymous said...

Today I read this quotation: "Whatever becomes of the clay tenement, the tenant is safe." Praying for all of you to know the safety of resting in Christ,
Nancy Snyder

Anonymous said...

Leah and Family,

Our prayers are with you and you family.
The Cupo's

Anonymous said...

We are so sad to hear of this transition, and we weep with your family. How wonderful to know that inspite of this sadness, Nancy will meet the Savior that she loves, ans has modeled His love to so many others over the years. Your family is loved so very much.

Anonymous said...

Praying for you and your family as you wait for Nancy to go home.
Pam Sezov

Anonymous said...

We are so sad for your family and so thankful Jesus is close. We are praying for you all.
Steve and Carolyn Ritter

Wendy said...

Dan, thank you for your transparency and beautiful communication during this delicate and awe-filled journey. Christ is being revealed in and through you with ever increasing measure. Nancy's joy has been to see you war for her, love her and tenderly point her to Our Father's face during a time that has been so very difficult. We love you both and are thankful for the ways He has woven our lives together. We continue to pray and will see you soon. Peace to Nancy on her birthday.